Thais Gibson

So I might, you know, have the first date, see if there's a connection, chemistry, have fun.

And then by the second date, that might be a question I bring up pretty early.

Hey, like, how do you handle conflict?

And then that way I can see if they say, oh, I would never, you know, I don't like to talk about things.

I don't go there.

I don't like conflict.

I don't believe in like having conflict.

I would be like, whoa.

Yeah.

Red flag.

And so then we bet.

And what we want to do is if we see those things and we're not sure, red flags, if you're interested in somebody otherwise, people think red flags, you should bolt.

No, red flags, you should go to words and figure out.

Because sometimes somebody might accidentally disrespect a boundary that you've said, hey, I want to move slower.

But sometimes that red flag is, well, you weren't clear enough at what slower means to you.

You didn't paint the picture.

So that should be a conversation you move towards to really get to the bottom of, like kind of a detective, like, hey...

I mentioned last week wanting to move slower.

I felt like we still moved at a really quick pace this week.

For me, moving slower looks like seeing each other a little bit less, you know, spending a little more time getting to know each other before traveling together, whatever it might be.