Thais Gibson

To start saying, hey, this is what's come up for me.

This is what I need in these situations.

This is what I'm feeling.

Hey, this is sensitive for me.

That's a pain point for me.

Can you be more mindful?

And I believe that we really move the needle from more conditionally based love to more unconditionally based love.

through having those deeper conversations through doing that work and then we deepen it's almost like in the early stages you have this really pretty sapling like this really nice little tree but a windstorm can take it out because it's so fragile but when we have those meaningful conversations again and again and we build and we grow and then all of a sudden you know your partner's you know biggest pain points and you're mindful of them and you know when somebody else hit them and you're there to show up for them and caretake for them and be sensitive to them and that and they're that for you too and

Now you deepen roots in love in such a different way where those ideas of like, oh, what if somebody else came along and one of us changed our mind?

You know, that is such a silly thing.

And I could never conceive of that at one point in my life because I had so many wounds around relationships and so many fears.

And it's only through that beauty of like having those conversations and doing the work and deepening that connection in such a real way that then like some silly frivolous thing that, oh, something attractive could come along and you could change it.

Like, it seems so almost like, you know, like silly, like you can laugh at it after a while.

But that's because I think the real work isn't that you're gonna be 100% sure, it's that you build that 100 or close to 100% certainty through all of those meaningful conversations that you're building over time.

And I really believe love isn't,

just given, I think love has really grown.

And I think that's part of what allows us to foster that with people.

Absolutely.

That's so beautiful.

I love that.