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Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

That's the only reason.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And unfortunately, this whole trend of like, I'm this, they're that.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Okay, that's why.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And then you put up with it or label yourself or excuse your behavior, excuse somebody else's behavior.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

It's actually really dysfunctional.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Exactly.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And so like, so for us, that's like the exact body of work that we produce right now.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Our main thing is like, no, myself and our whole team and school.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

It's all these like programs and things.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Yeah.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And so, so what we do is it's like you identify your attachments while you take an assessment.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And then the whole point from that point forward is not to be like, I am this.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Good for you or too bad.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

No, like the whole point is then you lock yourself into that, that pattern of behavior.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

It's hard to be insecurely attached.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

I was, you know, and I've worked with tens of thousands of people who are.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

It's very difficult.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And so finding your attachment style should be the very tip of the iceberg.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And then it should be, how do I change it?