Thais Gibson

And so whatever we didn't get met, we're often not meeting in the relationship to self.

If somebody wasn't present enough with you growing up, that's actually a huge part of healing is, okay, well, I'm probably not very present with myself.

Or if people said, I really need validation, I didn't feel validated growing up.

Unfortunately, usually you're playing up that programming and you're the one struggling to validate yourself the most and you're sort of validating everybody else before you.

And so what's really beautiful is it's deeply healing for people to go in, audit where they're missing these deep needs and

And then for 21 days, through that repetition and emotion to really fire and wire those neural networks, we get people to go through, here are my deepest unmet needs and actual actions and practices to meet them within relationship to self.

And once we go for 21 days very repeatedly and it elicits this emotional impact and we're doing it physiologically, so we have that like imagery that we're reaching our subconscious mind, that becomes our new baseline.

It becomes our new set point and we just become good at doing those things.

And as an example...

As somebody who did all this work on myself first 14 years ago, 15 years ago, one of the biggest things I really wanted was emotional depth.

Like I always cared about that with other people and liking to go deep into things.

And I realized, oh my gosh, I'm trying to, and we always do this, we try to resource from other people the most the things we struggle to self-source.

Yeah, we try to resource the most from other people the things that we struggle to self-source the most within self.

And so what ends up taking place is that we also put all that pressure on our relationships.

You know, anxious attachment cells, for example, they really struggle to self-soothe.

So they're like, my partner always needs to be available to soothe me.

Or fearful avoidance end up being like, I don't know if I can trust people.

I feel like they're going to betray me.

So that person better always be 100% congruent.

They better never tell a white lie, nothing, or I might have to leave the relationship.