Thais Gibson

So then that's what we sabotage.

But it's not actual sabotage.

You're not choosing sabotage.

Your subconscious programming is just winning out.

And on the flip side, sometimes we can have core wounds or these limiting beliefs and some of the big ones.

And, you know, you can see how these line up for you is one is fear of being trapped.

So sometimes if there's a history of ever feeling like controlled in childhood, trapped, really strict parents, some kind of instance or dynamic where you felt like you couldn't really be yourself, then that becomes a trigger as an adult and that causes more rebellious behaviors.

And then the other one can be this fear of being helpless or powerless.

So

Those things, if there was ever times where you had to rely on somebody and you didn't feel like they were really helping empower you, they were kind of unpredictable or unsafe, then there can be this dynamic of like, oh, if I have to, trapped helpless empowers just often go together.

And so having to restrict, having to be in a container, having to be in a cage in any way or anything you would associate with that, there's this intense need to rebel.

And so that would be these core wounds on the side are limiting beliefs.

Like if I have to restrict, that means I am trapped.

And so what's cool is that once you discover it, you can find ways to restrict.

You can actually rewire that discipline equals freedom because discipline does equal freedom in a lot of ways.

And you can make it so that it doesn't feel so hard to be disciplined by rewiring it.

then you'll still feel this like inkling to rebel.

Like there'll be this part of you that when somebody, and you'll probably see it in different areas of your life if that shows up for you, where somebody kind of tries to push something on you or force something on you, it'll be external too.

That you may kind of sabotage when people are trying to ask you to do things and it feels like they're trapping you.

Like you might want to push back just instinctively.