Thais Gibson
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I'd have to ask more questions.
Well, that's okay.
But, but generally it's not anxious.
Okay.
So, I mean, there's a lot that goes into it.
Like you could have been some attachment stylist and done a lot of work and become, are you, have you been married for a long time?
So you're mostly, you're probably mostly secure.
Are you happy in your marriage?
We'll leave that one.
And do you find in your history of relationships, because you're probably mostly secure now if you've been in a longstanding relationship.
We rule that one out.
You're probably mostly secure, but you may have had a history of
of being either fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidance.
No.
Oh, yeah.
Interesting, right?
It's just that people are...
What happens is you get the anxious who are interested in the avoidance.
So the anxious ones, because they're anxious and they're people-pleasing, they're very externally focused.
So right away, instead of them focusing on themselves or focusing on others.