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Thomas Curran

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714 total appearances

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

I still don't really.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

But push yourself into those situations.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And you realize very quickly that it's not as catastrophic as you think it is when you slip up.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

People are typically really good people.

Chatabix
Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And they will give you so much latitude.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And also, if you show your vulnerability in those moments too, there's almost a sigh of relief in the audience.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

Like, oh my God, this person's human.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

Yeah.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

They, you know, it's, it's quite remarkable when you show that vulnerability purposefully, you know, and you say like, you know, I I'm out my debt fear.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

I made a mistake.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

I didn't know what I was doing on a particular analysis, whatever it might be in my work.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And suddenly, you know, all these people who are looking at you, who expect this professor to know everything and be everything to everybody and have all across all the areas and all the rest of it is showing like that actually they're not this bulletproof person that you've, you've, you've kind of built them up to be in their mind.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And so, and actually you're like them, but you're just like them.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

You, you, you make mistakes, you, you're not perfect and all the rest of it.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

Like it's almost like a sea of relief just in everyone's in everyone's face.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And I think that that tells us something really beautiful about a common humanity.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

that everybody knows deep down that we're not the perfect people that often we're told we should be in those situations that we have to be.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

And I think there's something really nice about that.

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Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

So I try to do that too in my own life, try to be as vulnerable as I possibly can and let people know that even professors aren't perfect.

Chatabix
Specialist Guest: 'The Perfection Trap' Thomas Curran

Yeah, that makes sense.