Thomas Thatcher

And it was only when the costs got so unbearable that I said, the costs just aren't worth it anymore.

And that's when I finally decided to get off it.

But the problem is, Morgan, is that when you

and decide to get off it.

It's just not that easy.

Yes, you can just stand up.

But then when you stand up, you say, oh, but I've got to give all my rackets up.

No, now I have to be responsible.

Now I really have to work hard.

Now I have to come to the office on time.

See, when I had my situation with my brother earlier,

And my father, I said, I don't need to come to work.

I'll get there at 930 if I want.

Or I don't need to work hard because look at this.

Look at my story.

Look how I can justify my actions because of what my father did to me, so to speak.

And that's the problem that we get into is our stories then become a fixed way of being.

And we can almost justify anything when we're in that state.

Well, I've got this little whiteboard here for everybody.

I don't know if you can see it, but really here's what the four steps are.