Tig Notaro

It's, I don't know how people aren't changed.

I remember I was on a TV, I was on a production where this guy, after I had cancer and he was like, hey, it was like a really impressive story.

He's like, I had cancer.

I have stage four, this and that kind of, I was like, whoa.

And then I saw him light up a cigarette and

On a smoke break.

And I was truly I don't mean I if that's judgmental, it's judgmental.

But it was just more like I could I so could not relate to that because after I was sick, I started exercising every day.

I changed the way I eat.

I am I all of those things that you're supposed to do.

I didn't think about I did not think about I was the epitome of the person.

I was like, that's not gonna happen to me.

I don't think I ever get cancer.

I did, among other things.

Absolutely.

I for sure did.

And that is what I'm continuing to go back to what I was saying earlier about trying to find my place in... Yeah, I have the...

go to hell in me, but I also get a little baby giraffe legs in certain situations where I'm not standing up for myself and I need to learn how to do that.

But, but it's, but I'm, again, I'm, I'm doing fine.

And, and I think that just finding that balance between the tenderness and the go to hellness is,