Tim Molnar

None of those are, you know, whether this person went to college X, Y, or Z. It's really things like loyalty and generosity and kindness and emotional stability. And these are things that are just very difficult to pick up on apps. And that's what I think I could more intuitively sense.

None of those are, you know, whether this person went to college X, Y, or Z. It's really things like loyalty and generosity and kindness and emotional stability. And these are things that are just very difficult to pick up on apps. And that's what I think I could more intuitively sense.

None of those are, you know, whether this person went to college X, Y, or Z. It's really things like loyalty and generosity and kindness and emotional stability. And these are things that are just very difficult to pick up on apps. And that's what I think I could more intuitively sense.

And I think what your listeners will be able to more intuitively sense what the other person on the other side of this interaction can intuitively sense.

And I think what your listeners will be able to more intuitively sense what the other person on the other side of this interaction can intuitively sense.

And I think what your listeners will be able to more intuitively sense what the other person on the other side of this interaction can intuitively sense.

So I think a really important piece of this question is, how do we get ourselves in the ring? How do we get ourselves a shot from when we've matched with someone on an app to be able to actually meet up with them in person? Because anyone who's used these knows there can be a really big divide between those two things. Right.

So I think a really important piece of this question is, how do we get ourselves in the ring? How do we get ourselves a shot from when we've matched with someone on an app to be able to actually meet up with them in person? Because anyone who's used these knows there can be a really big divide between those two things. Right.

So I think a really important piece of this question is, how do we get ourselves in the ring? How do we get ourselves a shot from when we've matched with someone on an app to be able to actually meet up with them in person? Because anyone who's used these knows there can be a really big divide between those two things. Right.

So one of the things that I talk about is using what James Clear, who wrote Atomic Habits, refers to as implementation intentions. And it's really a specific behavior, date, time of what we're going to do, or in this case, just specificity around when we're going to meet up. So you send over a plan, an invitation, and instead of like, hey, would you want to get together sometime?

So one of the things that I talk about is using what James Clear, who wrote Atomic Habits, refers to as implementation intentions. And it's really a specific behavior, date, time of what we're going to do, or in this case, just specificity around when we're going to meet up. So you send over a plan, an invitation, and instead of like, hey, would you want to get together sometime?

So one of the things that I talk about is using what James Clear, who wrote Atomic Habits, refers to as implementation intentions. And it's really a specific behavior, date, time of what we're going to do, or in this case, just specificity around when we're going to meet up. So you send over a plan, an invitation, and instead of like, hey, would you want to get together sometime?

That's a really vague question because I don't know if I'm agreeing to a all-day hike. I don't know if we're going for coffee. I don't know if that's at seven in the morning or 2 p.m. on a Saturday or on a Thursday. And contrast that with, hey, it's been really fun chatting back and forth here. I'd love to take this to a coffee shop. Are you free Thursday at 6 p.m.?

That's a really vague question because I don't know if I'm agreeing to a all-day hike. I don't know if we're going for coffee. I don't know if that's at seven in the morning or 2 p.m. on a Saturday or on a Thursday. And contrast that with, hey, it's been really fun chatting back and forth here. I'd love to take this to a coffee shop. Are you free Thursday at 6 p.m.?

That's a really vague question because I don't know if I'm agreeing to a all-day hike. I don't know if we're going for coffee. I don't know if that's at seven in the morning or 2 p.m. on a Saturday or on a Thursday. And contrast that with, hey, it's been really fun chatting back and forth here. I'd love to take this to a coffee shop. Are you free Thursday at 6 p.m.?

There's this really fun coffee shop that I've been loving downtown called, you know, whatever. And now the person on the other end of that has all the information that they need to make that decision. And it's possible that that decision is, no, actually, like, I was really comfortable on the app, and I'm really not looking for... meeting up with real people here.

There's this really fun coffee shop that I've been loving downtown called, you know, whatever. And now the person on the other end of that has all the information that they need to make that decision. And it's possible that that decision is, no, actually, like, I was really comfortable on the app, and I'm really not looking for... meeting up with real people here.

There's this really fun coffee shop that I've been loving downtown called, you know, whatever. And now the person on the other end of that has all the information that they need to make that decision. And it's possible that that decision is, no, actually, like, I was really comfortable on the app, and I'm really not looking for... meeting up with real people here.

I'm doing this for self-gratification or other types of reasons, to ward off loneliness, as a numbing effect for some anxious feelings that I'm having. But that's a lot better to figure out at this stage as opposed to continuing to draw the conversation on for days and days and days. And so I think it's a lot about specificity. I think it's about clarity of intentions.

I'm doing this for self-gratification or other types of reasons, to ward off loneliness, as a numbing effect for some anxious feelings that I'm having. But that's a lot better to figure out at this stage as opposed to continuing to draw the conversation on for days and days and days. And so I think it's a lot about specificity. I think it's about clarity of intentions.