Tim Molnar

And neither of us were trying to put on an act of, oh, I'm going to put together this hummus because maybe I'll impress him. It's like, no, I love this CSA. I love fresh produce. And I want to make this hummus. And if nothing else, I get to have a good, tasty snack, even if he doesn't like this. And for me, I'm like, gosh, this is so fascinating. What goes in there?

And neither of us were trying to put on an act of, oh, I'm going to put together this hummus because maybe I'll impress him. It's like, no, I love this CSA. I love fresh produce. And I want to make this hummus. And if nothing else, I get to have a good, tasty snack, even if he doesn't like this. And for me, I'm like, gosh, this is so fascinating. What goes in there?

i think just that ability to show up with a genuine curiosity and this goes for so many conversations and and interactions that we have that's not just dating related but it's you know meeting people in a professional context meeting people on the bus is like you never know where something might lead but you know i've had fascinating conversations with like

i think just that ability to show up with a genuine curiosity and this goes for so many conversations and and interactions that we have that's not just dating related but it's you know meeting people in a professional context meeting people on the bus is like you never know where something might lead but you know i've had fascinating conversations with like

i think just that ability to show up with a genuine curiosity and this goes for so many conversations and and interactions that we have that's not just dating related but it's you know meeting people in a professional context meeting people on the bus is like you never know where something might lead but you know i've had fascinating conversations with like

people who started medical centers, and the guy who used to run the Tokyo Stock Exchange. And these weren't things where I was like, gosh, this seems like a really important person sitting on this bench. It was just like, here's a nice person. I'm going to say hi and then ask some interesting questions about what they're doing. And sometimes they might be busy. They might be doing other stuff.

people who started medical centers, and the guy who used to run the Tokyo Stock Exchange. And these weren't things where I was like, gosh, this seems like a really important person sitting on this bench. It was just like, here's a nice person. I'm going to say hi and then ask some interesting questions about what they're doing. And sometimes they might be busy. They might be doing other stuff.

people who started medical centers, and the guy who used to run the Tokyo Stock Exchange. And these weren't things where I was like, gosh, this seems like a really important person sitting on this bench. It was just like, here's a nice person. I'm going to say hi and then ask some interesting questions about what they're doing. And sometimes they might be busy. They might be doing other stuff.

They might have things going on. They might have had a death in the family recently and might just be having an off day. But more often than not, we're starved for that connection, and people really appreciate that genuine curiosity.

They might have things going on. They might have had a death in the family recently and might just be having an off day. But more often than not, we're starved for that connection, and people really appreciate that genuine curiosity.

They might have things going on. They might have had a death in the family recently and might just be having an off day. But more often than not, we're starved for that connection, and people really appreciate that genuine curiosity.

Yeah, I don't know why it was so fascinating to me, but it was, and I just kind of kept pressing. And so I think for someone listening to this, they're like, you know, I really don't care about yogurt. There's something else that they do care about and that they're going to be able to find common ground on and going to be able to probe a little bit more deeply on.

Yeah, I don't know why it was so fascinating to me, but it was, and I just kind of kept pressing. And so I think for someone listening to this, they're like, you know, I really don't care about yogurt. There's something else that they do care about and that they're going to be able to find common ground on and going to be able to probe a little bit more deeply on.

Yeah, I don't know why it was so fascinating to me, but it was, and I just kind of kept pressing. And so I think for someone listening to this, they're like, you know, I really don't care about yogurt. There's something else that they do care about and that they're going to be able to find common ground on and going to be able to probe a little bit more deeply on.

And we love people that are curious about us. I feel great in this conversation. You've been asking me great, thoughtful, well-curated conversations for the last 45 minutes, and I feel awesome. I'm like, gosh, Connell's such a nice guy. We're having this great conversation. Gosh, I feel so interesting because you've made me feel that way. You've given me space to talk about myself.

And we love people that are curious about us. I feel great in this conversation. You've been asking me great, thoughtful, well-curated conversations for the last 45 minutes, and I feel awesome. I'm like, gosh, Connell's such a nice guy. We're having this great conversation. Gosh, I feel so interesting because you've made me feel that way. You've given me space to talk about myself.

And we love people that are curious about us. I feel great in this conversation. You've been asking me great, thoughtful, well-curated conversations for the last 45 minutes, and I feel awesome. I'm like, gosh, Connell's such a nice guy. We're having this great conversation. Gosh, I feel so interesting because you've made me feel that way. You've given me space to talk about myself.

So I think for people who are like, gosh, what is it that I say? I need to come with the best story or do this. Right. Just a reminder that people care more about how you make them feel than the things that you necessarily have to share. And those things will come. But the better you can show up and just be genuinely curious, that unlocks so many doors.

So I think for people who are like, gosh, what is it that I say? I need to come with the best story or do this. Right. Just a reminder that people care more about how you make them feel than the things that you necessarily have to share. And those things will come. But the better you can show up and just be genuinely curious, that unlocks so many doors.

So I think for people who are like, gosh, what is it that I say? I need to come with the best story or do this. Right. Just a reminder that people care more about how you make them feel than the things that you necessarily have to share. And those things will come. But the better you can show up and just be genuinely curious, that unlocks so many doors.