Todd Adams
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562 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2021
last heard Nov 2022
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does, but I have to unlearn all of that stuff.
And it's not an easy thing.
What I would say to anybody who's struggling between two couples, I think the reason Kathy and I have a really strong healthy marriage.
It's not perfect.
It's not supposed to be perfect.
We have our own share of hiccups that happen.
But most of the credit that I give the health of our marriage is because we're both doing our own work.
We're working
on ourselves, we're trying to bring our own understanding of a self so that we can bring some happy and contentment to the other person.
What happens a lot in in a marriage is they look to the other person to make them happy and that's I don't I don't know if it's even possible.
So
Well, and you you talked about the formula how it's um I think I think a lot of us have the parenting formula reversed.
So in other words, I'm a father and I'm gonna pour all of my energy into being a father, and then I'll make sure I'm a good husband, and then if I have anything left over, I'm gonna take care of myself.
And I feel like we need to at least consider the possibility that maybe you fill your own cup first and then you really have a try to have a deep authentic.
Relationship with your life partner if you happen to be in that situation.
And then, you know, and hopefully there's enough for everybody for each of those things.
But what I want for my daughters is whoever they choose to have life partners is somebody that's going to treat them nicely.
They're going to learn a lot more about how to find somebody based upon how I treat Kathy, as opposed to anything I say to them.
Like, you know, they're they're just going to model what they say.
Unless they are exceptional and they can figure out how to undo any baggage that I pass down to 'em.
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