Todd Adams
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562 appearances
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1 series
first heard Jul 2021
last heard Nov 2022
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is I just want to be as present as I can in the moment when I'm with my kids, with my wife, with whomever.
And it's it's a practice that needs to be nurtured.
I I do it through meditation and sometimes I get on a run of 30 days in a row and then I'll screw up.
But but getting back, like, how do you want to show up in this world?
And if if the results of your marriage is that there's a bunch of people that are not being
nice to one another, then what are you here for?
And I challenge the men who may be listening to this, you know, take 100% responsibility for how you show up in this relationship.
You know, I've been in the bar where the guys are complaining about their wives complaining about them.
And I'll say, is there any truth to whatever it is they're complaining about?
Because, you know, our ego is designed to get as defensive and drop us below the line and
We just want to like protect our own ego.
And instead, can we inquire within saying, is there any truth to whatever it is that's being presented to me?
And the other thing is whenever Kathy and I are really going sideways, it's when we're both in this reactive state.
And it's rare.
Usually one of us can like rise above and create the space for what I'll say, unfair, you know, venting.
And can we create the space for the person to do that?
Cause I've done that with Kathy, where I'm kind of in this reactive place and she'll just kind of be able to create some space for me to kind of vent and then come back from this kind of centered place where it goes sideways is when we're both in this reactive place.
And that's when it you come back to self-care.
Like can you cultivate a practice where you're not coming at the life from this?
l scanning the environment for anything that's going wrong.
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