Tony Robbins

But the difference in your wife is not you love your wife less.

It's that that love is so programmed as it is in her for your children, but it's also love that you don't think is going to go away because you never had a teenager.

So it feels like certain love.

Her love could feel like it goes away if you didn't behave effectively, or vice versa, it could happen on both sides.

But one of the great gifts that you'll be able to give each other as time goes on is to understand the best way to serve your children is the way you love each other.

Because we live in a world, we make our kids number one, and our kids are critical to us, but we're number one.

And the reason is Sage's life, her parents, you know, they had a relationship that was extraordinary and they had her, describe it if you would, honey, not me telling you.

Yeah, and you stay both.

In her family, you think about it, we think today, like, this whole thing, baby on board, that all started in the 80s.

You know, even movies changed.

Movies used to be The Exorcist was a child, right?

It was the devil child, Rosemary's baby, right?

We went to a new place where we put our children first, and that's why so many relationships are dysfunctional.

Because you would think that the children would feel less love.

They feel more love because they see secure love.

And they have a model that it can be done in the future, which most people don't have.

So she had that experience.

And that experience shapes so much at such a different level.

But the other part is people think of a love relationship as, you know, just the romance and the excitement of the beginning of a relationship.

And life is seasons.