Tony Robbins

I mean, think about what changed humanity from living in fear as hunter-gatherers hoping we can get enough food to survive to being able to stay, build a family, have a life, build a community, build a city, build a country.

The answer is one distinction, one recognition of a pattern, because that's what this is all about.

If you can recognize patterns, AI, whatever it is, if you can learn to use them, you'll have no fear.

Patterns show you that it's not random.

When you learn how to use them, you have power.

When you learn to create patterns, you become very powerful.

So there's patterns in parenting.

There's patterns in relationship.

The pattern that changed humanity was understanding the seasons.

till we understood that we were always in fear because you could plant something, but three quarters of the time it didn't work.

Until we came up with, oh, if I plant in the spring, not any other season, that's the only time.

If I do the right thing at the right time, I get the reward.

But if I do the right thing at the wrong time, which three quarters of the time was the wrong time, I get nothing.

Once we understood that, okay, and then I got to protect it during the summer, then I get to reap in the fall and I better hang on to some of that for the winter.

That's why we're here not living like survivalists, right?

think of your relationship as four seasons.

Think of the first season as the season of just pure chemistry.

Pure romance, which you've read about and everything else, where you don't even know the other person's values, but you're in love with them because you've got the chemistry for it, right?

And we all have that experience.

But that's about a...