Tori Dunlap

And how do you feel now?

And what they all say is I walked in feeling really nervous or really intimidated.

And I actually now feel like I can do this.

And like, that is the feeling I want for every single woman on this planet.

And you're exactly right.

It feels so scary when you first get started.

Everything feels so scary when you first start.

But when you start making these decisions for yourself, you start growing your own confidence and you go, oh, I can't do this.

And that was so scary two months ago, but I feel good about this.

And like, that is the transformation that starts to happen, but it only happens once.

Like, where are you going?

And at the beginning, I was telling you about, you know, all these messages we get from women now where they're telling me a financial goal, but then they're telling me how they feel.

And when you are financially okay, you get to exercise your self-worth in every single situation.

But when you're in a situation that doesn't respect you, you're in a relationship, you're in an apartment that doesn't feel safe, you're in a job that doesn't feel safe.

I have been there.

I have been in a job that was abusive, that was misogynistic.

I was in a workplace where I did not enjoy coming to work, but I couldn't leave because I didn't have enough money.

We see women in domestically abusive relationships.

The number one reason they can't leave is money.

99% of abusive relationships have some sort of financial abuse tied to them.