Tori Dunlap

So when we are conditioned to be altruistic, we're conditioned to be givers, which is, again, beautiful, and we should donate and we should give. When we don't conform to that role or identity, when we're no longer controllable, because really that's what it is. When I have money, I'm no longer controllable.

So when we are conditioned to be altruistic, we're conditioned to be givers, which is, again, beautiful, and we should donate and we should give. When we don't conform to that role or identity, when we're no longer controllable, because really that's what it is. When I have money, I'm no longer controllable.

So when we are conditioned to be altruistic, we're conditioned to be givers, which is, again, beautiful, and we should donate and we should give. When we don't conform to that role or identity, when we're no longer controllable, because really that's what it is. When I have money, I'm no longer controllable.

So when we are conditioned to be altruistic, we're conditioned to be givers, which is, again, beautiful, and we should donate and we should give. When we don't conform to that role or identity, when we're no longer controllable, because really that's what it is. When I have money, I'm no longer controllable.

So when we are conditioned to be altruistic, we're conditioned to be givers, which is, again, beautiful, and we should donate and we should give. When we don't conform to that role or identity, when we're no longer controllable, because really that's what it is. When I have money, I'm no longer controllable.

it becomes a risk when you are transparent about money in a way that just, it isn't for men. And so I am doing the same thing where like, I will show you my pay stubs. I will show you how much I make. I also now know that there is a certain inherent risk to that just because of my gender identity in a way that there isn't for a straight white man. There just isn't. It's so crazy.

it becomes a risk when you are transparent about money in a way that just, it isn't for men. And so I am doing the same thing where like, I will show you my pay stubs. I will show you how much I make. I also now know that there is a certain inherent risk to that just because of my gender identity in a way that there isn't for a straight white man. There just isn't. It's so crazy.

it becomes a risk when you are transparent about money in a way that just, it isn't for men. And so I am doing the same thing where like, I will show you my pay stubs. I will show you how much I make. I also now know that there is a certain inherent risk to that just because of my gender identity in a way that there isn't for a straight white man. There just isn't. It's so crazy.

it becomes a risk when you are transparent about money in a way that just, it isn't for men. And so I am doing the same thing where like, I will show you my pay stubs. I will show you how much I make. I also now know that there is a certain inherent risk to that just because of my gender identity in a way that there isn't for a straight white man. There just isn't. It's so crazy.

it becomes a risk when you are transparent about money in a way that just, it isn't for men. And so I am doing the same thing where like, I will show you my pay stubs. I will show you how much I make. I also now know that there is a certain inherent risk to that just because of my gender identity in a way that there isn't for a straight white man. There just isn't. It's so crazy.

The perspective shifts to, we need to remind her that she needs to tax herself and just be grateful for where she's at and not go above her station. We don't do that for men. A man can post a photo on Instagram or on Twitter with him at the golf course. in a Rolex, and the comments are, cool Rolex, bro, you're doing well for yourself, right?

The perspective shifts to, we need to remind her that she needs to tax herself and just be grateful for where she's at and not go above her station. We don't do that for men. A man can post a photo on Instagram or on Twitter with him at the golf course. in a Rolex, and the comments are, cool Rolex, bro, you're doing well for yourself, right?

The perspective shifts to, we need to remind her that she needs to tax herself and just be grateful for where she's at and not go above her station. We don't do that for men. A man can post a photo on Instagram or on Twitter with him at the golf course. in a Rolex, and the comments are, cool Rolex, bro, you're doing well for yourself, right?

The perspective shifts to, we need to remind her that she needs to tax herself and just be grateful for where she's at and not go above her station. We don't do that for men. A man can post a photo on Instagram or on Twitter with him at the golf course. in a Rolex, and the comments are, cool Rolex, bro, you're doing well for yourself, right?

The perspective shifts to, we need to remind her that she needs to tax herself and just be grateful for where she's at and not go above her station. We don't do that for men. A man can post a photo on Instagram or on Twitter with him at the golf course. in a Rolex, and the comments are, cool Rolex, bro, you're doing well for yourself, right?

And again, we have this own internalized stuff going on ourselves, right? This is not like men necessarily like putting this on us. This is so many women coming to me being like, yeah, but I should just be grateful that I have a job at all. And I'm like, yes, and you're not being compensated fairly. So let's get you a raise.

And again, we have this own internalized stuff going on ourselves, right? This is not like men necessarily like putting this on us. This is so many women coming to me being like, yeah, but I should just be grateful that I have a job at all. And I'm like, yes, and you're not being compensated fairly. So let's get you a raise.

And again, we have this own internalized stuff going on ourselves, right? This is not like men necessarily like putting this on us. This is so many women coming to me being like, yeah, but I should just be grateful that I have a job at all. And I'm like, yes, and you're not being compensated fairly. So let's get you a raise.

And again, we have this own internalized stuff going on ourselves, right? This is not like men necessarily like putting this on us. This is so many women coming to me being like, yeah, but I should just be grateful that I have a job at all. And I'm like, yes, and you're not being compensated fairly. So let's get you a raise.

And again, we have this own internalized stuff going on ourselves, right? This is not like men necessarily like putting this on us. This is so many women coming to me being like, yeah, but I should just be grateful that I have a job at all. And I'm like, yes, and you're not being compensated fairly. So let's get you a raise.