Tori Dunlap

You are telling me that this idyllic lifestyle—you're performing this for me on an Instagram account that makes money.

Yeah.

You are selling pretty high production.

You're selling your milk and you're selling your whatever.

Yeah.

You're a business.

You are now the breadwinner of your house.

And yet you're telling me and selling me on the idea that money's not my job.

It's just I don't know.

I don't worry about money.

That's somebody else's job.

You are making money.

You are an entrepreneur and a damn good one because you're making millions of dollars selling this lifestyle.

But you're selling, I'm not for selling.

No, you're not either.

Selling a lifestyle that is like so damaging to women.

And also we give away our power so often as women because we don't know any better.

I just woke up in my twenties and realized all of the ways I was giving away my power and all of the ways that I was allowing usually men in my life to speak down to me or make me feel small.

And every moment of my life that happened where that happened and I allowed that behavior, I just felt it was awful.

So if you are giving away your financial power, you're giving away your agency, your autonomy, you are giving away so much that might feel right now like freedom.