Tori Dunlap

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1,388 appearances 3 recordings 2 series first heard Jan 2025 last heard 10 Mar

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And if you feel like you don't have a great relationship with money, it was probably because of the way your parents or your guardians managed money.
And we've seen a lot of immigrant communities, especially people who just hoard their money because is the other shoe going to drop, right?
I see that so often.
A lot of people's first money memories are not positive.
It is, I tried to buy school lunch and we couldn't afford it.
Or I watched my parents freeze their credit cards.
Like that was advice back in the day was like, if you can't control your spending on credit cards, literally like put it in a block of ice and freeze it.
Oh, you mean literally?
Like quite literally, not just freezing your credit, but like literally like put it in a block of ice and freeze it.
And you mentioned the ostrich effect and it is probably the most common thing I see because all of this feels so emotional and it feels so loaded.
It is so much easier to bury your head in the sand like an ostrich and act like your problems don't exist.
And the metaphor I bring is that so many people believe that looking at my money stresses me out.
So therefore I'm not going to do it.
That's not what's stressing you out.
You're stressed out because you are raw dogging life.
And what I mean by that is you are just stressed.
Going through life, wondering at any time, is my car going to decline?
Can I not afford this?
It's almost like a gas gauge in your car, right?
Like if I get in my car and I start driving and I don't have a gas gauge or the gas gauge is broken, that's a really stressful road trip because I could break down on the side of the road at two in the morning in a place I've never been without cell reception.
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