Tracee Ellis Ross
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94 appearances
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first heard Apr 2025
last heard Apr 2025
Tracee Ellis Ross’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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If you're doing all the right things, you know what I mean? I think that's the first thing I would say to Rona. The second thing is, ask yourself the question, is dating helping you get towards what you want? Or is it actually distracting you because there's enough drama that you're not having the courage to say, this is what I want.
I had a friend who was dating recently and the guy is out of a divorce and there's just some stuff going on and they really like each other, but he's kind of in a hallway. And she said, which I thought was the most courageous and beautiful thing, why don't you call me when you're out of the hallway?
When you find a room.
And like, if you still think I'm somebody that could be in that room with you, then give me a call. I mean, I said to someone I was dating recently, like, I've come to realize that you are not a loving match for me as much as I love you.
I didn't hear from him for a while.
Yeah, well, he made his bed before when he wasn't showing up the way he should have. I gave him enough tries. And the crazy thing is for me, when it takes a lot for somebody to get inside my heart and feel safe. Once you get in there, it's so hard for me to get you out. And I have to really give myself time.
And that's the other thing I would say to Ronan about him sort of pining around this old relationship. Remember that in memory, you remember the good stuff.
So it's not always the full picture. There's a reason that didn't work and you can trust that. And the right relationship, there's nothing you can do to make it stop. Like it will resurface itself if it's meant to be.
Yeah, that's crazy.
Can I just ask what some of the 32 things on the list were?
Of the questions?
I'm so curious.
I'm going to throw that at one of the people I'm dating right now.
Yeah, that's really smart.
Yeah, that was really helpful.
Well, I think it depends because I don't think we have enough information from Ronan, right? Like when he says distracting, what kind of distracting? So that's why I posed the question back to him of, you have to ask yourself some questions to figure out, is that the right advice for you? Are you learning enough from dating that's actually giving you the right information about yourself?
Or is the dating actually taking you off course?
Because you're getting invested in the drama of things aren't working out or are working out.
Yeah. Thoughtful from an internal compass is my thing. I always ask myself when I leave any situation, date included, how do I feel after?
Do I feel, because sometimes you can think it's really nice in that moment and you leave and I was like, wait, why do I feel small?
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