Tracee Ellis Ross
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94 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2025
last heard Apr 2025
Tracee Ellis Ross’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Why do I feel more insecure? Or do you feel good about yourself? Another question I do like to ask people is how do you argue? Oh, that's a good one. Yeah.
You know, because like my siblings, we all, there's a way that my family argues that I'm comfortable with. And I've been, because I get loud and then it's done. Like I'm so straightforward. I'm not somebody who's going to like hold it. Like I'm going to say it. For some people, that's terrifying. Yes. It's terrifying and sort of sends them into another place.
So those are, I just think all those kinds of questions and asking them both of the other person and of yourself.
when it's hard, you know? Well, I mean, you know, social media has made a myth of so many things because life requires you to show up. That's right. And if you want anything out of it, it's going to be work, you know, and relationships included. Someone told me this great just metaphor of imagine that the people you're closest to, you're going to step on each other's toes.
And so how do you work out the stepping on toes? Do you just blame them? That's right. Or do you figure out how to not step on each other's toes? Or is that just the nature of what a relationship brings? And then how do you work those things through and work those things out?
Yeah.
Or you're going to try and date yourself, which you don't want to do.
Do you as the man in your relationship, since we've been talking about it from our perspective, do you feel that you have continued to grow in your current marriage and that it asks that of you?
And that's what I... That's a really nice thing to say. Like, I've gotten better at being in a relationship.
Chemistry and love, yeah.
What's important to him in a relationship.
And can I reframe that?
So let's just call it the work because it's not extra work. That's just the work it takes.
Yeah, and if there are those things that you are like longing to do with a partner, are there versions of that you can do with yourself? Which is the thing that I have really discovered in my life. I'm like, all right, so how can I do that on my own while still dating? Mm-hmm. Well, Tracy. What a fun conversation. I love you. I love you right back. Yeah.
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