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Because people are saying all these things.

Oh, but open adoption.

Well, I'm in open adoption.

I still feel all these other shitty feelings.

So it's almost like underrepresented that open adoption cannot – it's not always –

The solution.

No, I get what you're saying.

Open adoption, though, I almost feel like it's subjective to whoever agency you're using, whatever.

It's so nuanced and so broad that you said that.

I remember when we talked to our adoption counselor and she mentioned that the only difference between open and closed is face-to-face contact.

Right, right.

Like I always say, we talk about it all the time, but getting older, I'm like, if the open adoption has this agreement, and I think it looks different for all agencies that do it.

So this agreement, though, is not legally enforceable.

Yeah.

In my opinion – It's just a piece of paper in the middle of a bunch of legal documents.

So in my opinion, it's like – so there's no other way to classify that agreement as coercion.

It's literally a way of just saying this is going to look way better than – it's OK.

It's going to look like this, but it's not.

So if it's not legally enforceable, then what else is this piece of paper?

I can go on Microsoft Word right now and type up – you know what I mean?