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Oh, well, you're just – your one negative experience doesn't define everything.

And it's like, well, neither is your one positive experience either.

So it's like that constant like almost comparison is just – it's irrelevant.

I think it takes away from the real purpose of what people are trying to do.

So it's like stop comparing.

And I see this a lot between – I guess the most discourse I was not expecting was actually adoptees against other adoptees and how their experience –

Trump's there.

Yeah, or this one.

And I'm like, wow, how is this?

We really like to eat our own.

How is this happening?

Right, what is up with that?

When I feel like everyone should have the same goal, which is what you said, is everyone should get what they want out of this system that they enter into, whatever.

And I think that goes down to, I mean, it's a promise that can't be kept in a lot of situations.

Yeah.

If people are not willing to do what they need to do.

And I also feel like I tell her all the time.

I said, I feel bad for my daughter's parents.

They went into adoption to having certain expectations with whatever promises made to them.

They didn't get the experience they wanted.