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Dude, thank you so much for taking my call. I just, I love you, man. I appreciate all that you do. And I have found an extraordinary amount of help through your show.

Dude, thank you so much for taking my call. I just, I love you, man. I appreciate all that you do. And I have found an extraordinary amount of help through your show.

Dude, thank you so much for taking my call. I just, I love you, man. I appreciate all that you do. And I have found an extraordinary amount of help through your show.

Okay, let me ask my question first, and if you want me to expound, I can expound. I would just like to know from a professional what the data is. Basically, what effect do romance novels and your wife reading them have on your marriage and your sex life?

Okay, let me ask my question first, and if you want me to expound, I can expound. I would just like to know from a professional what the data is. Basically, what effect do romance novels and your wife reading them have on your marriage and your sex life?

Okay, let me ask my question first, and if you want me to expound, I can expound. I would just like to know from a professional what the data is. Basically, what effect do romance novels and your wife reading them have on your marriage and your sex life?

Yeah, dude. So we've been married seven years, and my wife is my ride or die. We love each other. We've got a couple of kiddos that we're trying to raise, and things are fantastic. As far as our sex life goes, I just honestly feel that the expectations that these – romantic novels create.

Yeah, dude. So we've been married seven years, and my wife is my ride or die. We love each other. We've got a couple of kiddos that we're trying to raise, and things are fantastic. As far as our sex life goes, I just honestly feel that the expectations that these – romantic novels create.

Yeah, dude. So we've been married seven years, and my wife is my ride or die. We love each other. We've got a couple of kiddos that we're trying to raise, and things are fantastic. As far as our sex life goes, I just honestly feel that the expectations that these – romantic novels create.

The expectations it creates are almost like impossible for me to reach, and I feel like it's having an effect on our romantic life and on our sexual life, but I don't want to bring it up Uh, and almost like accuse that of, of being a reason why I feel like, uh, she escapes to those fantasies, um, during sex instead of like staying present with me like we used to.

The expectations it creates are almost like impossible for me to reach, and I feel like it's having an effect on our romantic life and on our sexual life, but I don't want to bring it up Uh, and almost like accuse that of, of being a reason why I feel like, uh, she escapes to those fantasies, um, during sex instead of like staying present with me like we used to.

The expectations it creates are almost like impossible for me to reach, and I feel like it's having an effect on our romantic life and on our sexual life, but I don't want to bring it up Uh, and almost like accuse that of, of being a reason why I feel like, uh, she escapes to those fantasies, um, during sex instead of like staying present with me like we used to.

Oh, dude, yeah. I mean, I'll just shoot you straight. So we're very open with that stuff. And we've talked about fantasies, and I feel like in some ways they've had a positive effect. And a lot of the fantasies that she has stem from situations in these books.

Oh, dude, yeah. I mean, I'll just shoot you straight. So we're very open with that stuff. And we've talked about fantasies, and I feel like in some ways they've had a positive effect. And a lot of the fantasies that she has stem from situations in these books.

Oh, dude, yeah. I mean, I'll just shoot you straight. So we're very open with that stuff. And we've talked about fantasies, and I feel like in some ways they've had a positive effect. And a lot of the fantasies that she has stem from situations in these books.

And so, yeah, during sex, I can just feel her and see her, you know, go off into these fantasies, you know, mentally through her body language and so forth. And she'll even straight up say it and tell me. And while that helps her during sex, I feel like it's divided us in a way where it used to just be like the whole world shuts down. It's her and I.

And so, yeah, during sex, I can just feel her and see her, you know, go off into these fantasies, you know, mentally through her body language and so forth. And she'll even straight up say it and tell me. And while that helps her during sex, I feel like it's divided us in a way where it used to just be like the whole world shuts down. It's her and I.

And so, yeah, during sex, I can just feel her and see her, you know, go off into these fantasies, you know, mentally through her body language and so forth. And she'll even straight up say it and tell me. And while that helps her during sex, I feel like it's divided us in a way where it used to just be like the whole world shuts down. It's her and I.

We communicate throughout it and now communication is lessened. It's far more quiet. All that stuff. I don't feel like she does just kind of go to these fantasies and I feel like In order for her, you know, to reach level sexually that she wants, she has to escape to those fantasies and almost escape reality. And I just, I don't like how it makes me feel. Yeah.