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We communicate throughout it and now communication is lessened. It's far more quiet. All that stuff. I don't feel like she does just kind of go to these fantasies and I feel like In order for her, you know, to reach level sexually that she wants, she has to escape to those fantasies and almost escape reality. And I just, I don't like how it makes me feel. Yeah.

We communicate throughout it and now communication is lessened. It's far more quiet. All that stuff. I don't feel like she does just kind of go to these fantasies and I feel like In order for her, you know, to reach level sexually that she wants, she has to escape to those fantasies and almost escape reality. And I just, I don't like how it makes me feel. Yeah.

I don't like how it is, you know, for a sex life. And so, yeah, I could just use some help on how to talk to her about it and what the data, I know that. you know, porn affects that, right? Like watching porn obviously affects and creates expectations that aren't realistic in sex.

I don't like how it is, you know, for a sex life. And so, yeah, I could just use some help on how to talk to her about it and what the data, I know that. you know, porn affects that, right? Like watching porn obviously affects and creates expectations that aren't realistic in sex.

I don't like how it is, you know, for a sex life. And so, yeah, I could just use some help on how to talk to her about it and what the data, I know that. you know, porn affects that, right? Like watching porn obviously affects and creates expectations that aren't realistic in sex.

And I want to know if I'm crazy for trying to bridge the gap and connecting the two or, or what your thoughts are on it.

And I want to know if I'm crazy for trying to bridge the gap and connecting the two or, or what your thoughts are on it.

And I want to know if I'm crazy for trying to bridge the gap and connecting the two or, or what your thoughts are on it.

Yeah, I think it does. And, you know, to add a little bit more context, my wife, like she... So we both own businesses and one of her like secondary things that she focuses on is digital minimalism. So she knows like the effects of social media stuff. She tries to stay away from it far more than I do. She's fantastic in that way.

Yeah, I think it does. And, you know, to add a little bit more context, my wife, like she... So we both own businesses and one of her like secondary things that she focuses on is digital minimalism. So she knows like the effects of social media stuff. She tries to stay away from it far more than I do. She's fantastic in that way.

Yeah, I think it does. And, you know, to add a little bit more context, my wife, like she... So we both own businesses and one of her like secondary things that she focuses on is digital minimalism. So she knows like the effects of social media stuff. She tries to stay away from it far more than I do. She's fantastic in that way.

And she's not, you know, every day hiding in her closet, just indulging in these books. It's enough that she's created a handful of escape routes. And so to your point, yes, I do feel like since we talk about it and we're open with it, it's almost like permission to go there. And what used to be a handful of times, you know, what are you thinking about? Blah, blah, blah.

And she's not, you know, every day hiding in her closet, just indulging in these books. It's enough that she's created a handful of escape routes. And so to your point, yes, I do feel like since we talk about it and we're open with it, it's almost like permission to go there. And what used to be a handful of times, you know, what are you thinking about? Blah, blah, blah.

And she's not, you know, every day hiding in her closet, just indulging in these books. It's enough that she's created a handful of escape routes. And so to your point, yes, I do feel like since we talk about it and we're open with it, it's almost like permission to go there. And what used to be a handful of times, you know, what are you thinking about? Blah, blah, blah.

Now it's like in order, in order for our sexual experience to be complete, if you know what I'm saying, she just has to, she just has to go there and just totally check out. And so, so yeah, you're, you're not wrong in a sense that it's almost like created this permission, but now it's,

Now it's like in order, in order for our sexual experience to be complete, if you know what I'm saying, she just has to, she just has to go there and just totally check out. And so, so yeah, you're, you're not wrong in a sense that it's almost like created this permission, but now it's,

Now it's like in order, in order for our sexual experience to be complete, if you know what I'm saying, she just has to, she just has to go there and just totally check out. And so, so yeah, you're, you're not wrong in a sense that it's almost like created this permission, but now it's,

It's almost like what used to be a handful of times is just every time, and we've lost our personal intimate connection where we're locked into each other.

It's almost like what used to be a handful of times is just every time, and we've lost our personal intimate connection where we're locked into each other.

It's almost like what used to be a handful of times is just every time, and we've lost our personal intimate connection where we're locked into each other.