Unnamed Caller 3

And we're kind of asking her, you know, questions about me and my availability and whether or not they have a shot with me. And I guess my friend Jill was uncomfortable about this and let me know later She didn't feel like it was really cool and she wants to stay out of it. And she doesn't like having a friend zone guys for me.

And we're kind of asking her, you know, questions about me and my availability and whether or not they have a shot with me. And I guess my friend Jill was uncomfortable about this and let me know later She didn't feel like it was really cool and she wants to stay out of it. And she doesn't like having a friend zone guys for me.

And I apologized and said like, okay, I don't feel like I was like inappropriately flirty with these guys. I was just being nice, but I will shut it down. And so the next day I texted one of the guys, I felt important to kind of bring it up sooner because he's looking at booking a little side quest with us. And I just wanted to

And I apologized and said like, okay, I don't feel like I was like inappropriately flirty with these guys. I was just being nice, but I will shut it down. And so the next day I texted one of the guys, I felt important to kind of bring it up sooner because he's looking at booking a little side quest with us. And I just wanted to

Let him know ahead of that that it's going to be totally platonic if he chooses to come with me and my friend Jill. I said in my text to him just that. I said, I want you to come with us. Just so you know, it's totally platonic. I'm sorry if this is forward, but Jill encouraged me to be direct with you. And he was totally cool about it. He was like, yeah, heard. I appreciate the honesty.

Let him know ahead of that that it's going to be totally platonic if he chooses to come with me and my friend Jill. I said in my text to him just that. I said, I want you to come with us. Just so you know, it's totally platonic. I'm sorry if this is forward, but Jill encouraged me to be direct with you. And he was totally cool about it. He was like, yeah, heard. I appreciate the honesty.

And so when I told her, hey, I spoke to such and such and we're all good. He can join us. She got really upset with me. that I quote unquote brought her into it. And now she's kind of freaking out at me and keeps saying like, keep my name out of it. Keep my name out of it. I don't want to be involved. And it's kind of making me feel really tense. Like we're going up on this

And so when I told her, hey, I spoke to such and such and we're all good. He can join us. She got really upset with me. that I quote unquote brought her into it. And now she's kind of freaking out at me and keeps saying like, keep my name out of it. Keep my name out of it. I don't want to be involved. And it's kind of making me feel really tense. Like we're going up on this

really big trip to another country for two weeks. And she's my closest friend on the trip. She's my connection to this group. And now she's kind of freaking out about a situation that to me seems completely blown out of proportion. I mean, all she had to do was like a pretty normal activity of like being inquired about whether or not your friend is available and into them.

really big trip to another country for two weeks. And she's my closest friend on the trip. She's my connection to this group. And now she's kind of freaking out about a situation that to me seems completely blown out of proportion. I mean, all she had to do was like a pretty normal activity of like being inquired about whether or not your friend is available and into them.

It's unfortunate that it was two different guys asking her, but I don't know what I should do. She was really crazy to me over text and just very, just feels very dramatic. And I want to, I mean, I apologized already, but it just doesn't feel like the right thing to do. I mean, she's being really hypocritical. The situation is just like escalated to a

It's unfortunate that it was two different guys asking her, but I don't know what I should do. She was really crazy to me over text and just very, just feels very dramatic. And I want to, I mean, I apologized already, but it just doesn't feel like the right thing to do. I mean, she's being really hypocritical. The situation is just like escalated to a

Hi, Dan. I have a nephew who's 22. I believe he's gay. He's never said anything. Not aware of any relationships he's had with any people. And I'd like him to be able to live a full, happy life as a gay man, if that's his case. However, he's very religious, and that religion is likely telling him that it's wrong to be gay, and his community would probably be upset if he were gay.

Hi, Dan. I have a nephew who's 22. I believe he's gay. He's never said anything. Not aware of any relationships he's had with any people. And I'd like him to be able to live a full, happy life as a gay man, if that's his case. However, he's very religious, and that religion is likely telling him that it's wrong to be gay, and his community would probably be upset if he were gay.

I'm wondering if I should butt in and let him know that his community is wrong and that he should let out wants and be happy and still be religious, just maybe not extreme. Or should I keep my mouth shut?

I'm wondering if I should butt in and let him know that his community is wrong and that he should let out wants and be happy and still be religious, just maybe not extreme. Or should I keep my mouth shut?

Happy New Year! Hey, Dan. I see on Grindr and things like that... that people are saying chaser. And it used to be, you know, back in our day, that chaser was people who were trying to catch HIV so they would never have had it anymore or for some other reason. And then there's chubby chasers. So when somebody just says chaser, are we to assume that they're a chubby chaser?

Happy New Year! Hey, Dan. I see on Grindr and things like that... that people are saying chaser. And it used to be, you know, back in our day, that chaser was people who were trying to catch HIV so they would never have had it anymore or for some other reason. And then there's chubby chasers. So when somebody just says chaser, are we to assume that they're a chubby chaser?

Hi there, Dan, Nancy, and tech-savvy at-risk youth. I am a 30-something female calling from the East Coast. I am calling about a situation where I've been dating this guy for the last few months. Things are going really well. We have super hot sex.

Hi there, Dan, Nancy, and tech-savvy at-risk youth. I am a 30-something female calling from the East Coast. I am calling about a situation where I've been dating this guy for the last few months. Things are going really well. We have super hot sex.