Unnamed Caller 3

He's a super sweet guy to me, but definitely keeping me at arm's length, like no sleepovers, and I haven't met any of his friends or family or anything like that. So I was suspicious that... You know, some of his actions weren't lining up with some of his other actions. And then finally he told me that he's about to be a father. He got his ex pregnant and there's a baby coming.

He's a super sweet guy to me, but definitely keeping me at arm's length, like no sleepovers, and I haven't met any of his friends or family or anything like that. So I was suspicious that... You know, some of his actions weren't lining up with some of his other actions. And then finally he told me that he's about to be a father. He got his ex pregnant and there's a baby coming.

So that came as a surprise to me. I definitely had the sense that there was something he wasn't saying, but I wouldn't have guessed that. So he took off to go be with the mother for the end of pregnancy slash beginning of baby being born. So I'm not sure how to proceed here. I mean, once he told me, we definitely, there was a sense of closeness.

So that came as a surprise to me. I definitely had the sense that there was something he wasn't saying, but I wouldn't have guessed that. So he took off to go be with the mother for the end of pregnancy slash beginning of baby being born. So I'm not sure how to proceed here. I mean, once he told me, we definitely, there was a sense of closeness.

And, you know, I asked him if he thinks he's going to get back together with her and he said, He assured me that that's not what he wants, although I think we're both open to the possibility that once the baby's born, the situation could change and the logistics of what it means to be a father to a baby to somebody that you're not with is going to be complicated.

And, you know, I asked him if he thinks he's going to get back together with her and he said, He assured me that that's not what he wants, although I think we're both open to the possibility that once the baby's born, the situation could change and the logistics of what it means to be a father to a baby to somebody that you're not with is going to be complicated.

So yeah, I mean, he addressed the fact that he should have told me sooner, but he didn't really want to harsh the vibe of our dates and that he was probably waiting to to see if it made sense if this was going to stick around. So he's gone. I won't see him for another six weeks or so. And I just, you know, should I let this go and get over it?

So yeah, I mean, he addressed the fact that he should have told me sooner, but he didn't really want to harsh the vibe of our dates and that he was probably waiting to to see if it made sense if this was going to stick around. So he's gone. I won't see him for another six weeks or so. And I just, you know, should I let this go and get over it?

It's not necessarily a deal breaker to me to date somebody who has a child, but... I'm wondering if the fact that he didn't tell me off the bat or sooner is like, is that a red flag? I mean, am I being too accepting of this situation and I should just walk away? Or if I really like this guy, should I? hang tight and we'll let this play out.

It's not necessarily a deal breaker to me to date somebody who has a child, but... I'm wondering if the fact that he didn't tell me off the bat or sooner is like, is that a red flag? I mean, am I being too accepting of this situation and I should just walk away? Or if I really like this guy, should I? hang tight and we'll let this play out.

We didn't really leave things in any certain terms, but he's still reaching out via text, even though it'll be weeks before I see him. So I don't know, I'm just interested to hear your thoughts.

We didn't really leave things in any certain terms, but he's still reaching out via text, even though it'll be weeks before I see him. So I don't know, I'm just interested to hear your thoughts.

Hi, Dan, cis, bi-curious, mid-30s woman in a major East Coast city here. I'm coming to you with a question about unprompted fin-doming. I'm married and we're in an open relationship. In the last month, I reactivated my Tinder and I've had a couple of matches reach out asking if they could send a tribute to me within their first couple of messages. And I'm not soliciting this at all in my profile.

Hi, Dan, cis, bi-curious, mid-30s woman in a major East Coast city here. I'm coming to you with a question about unprompted fin-doming. I'm married and we're in an open relationship. In the last month, I reactivated my Tinder and I've had a couple of matches reach out asking if they could send a tribute to me within their first couple of messages. And I'm not soliciting this at all in my profile.

In fact, it doesn't even reveal on there that I do lean Dom. Both of the users who reached out with this ask were photo verified. So I'm less worried about catfishing and more concerned with like my financial safety. This just seems too good to be true. If I set up a cash app and send my handle to them, am I just setting myself up to be scammed? Or am I overthinking this?

In fact, it doesn't even reveal on there that I do lean Dom. Both of the users who reached out with this ask were photo verified. So I'm less worried about catfishing and more concerned with like my financial safety. This just seems too good to be true. If I set up a cash app and send my handle to them, am I just setting myself up to be scammed? Or am I overthinking this?

And should I just let the pigs pay me?

And should I just let the pigs pay me?

This is for the guy in episode 946 who has been seeing the closeted cop. I'm going to make a couple of assumptions based on your call. I'm assuming that he never went out in public with you. Dinners, movies, events. I'm assuming that your friends never met him. I'm assuming that it was a hot fantasy for you to be seeing a cop who you thought was straight and married.

This is for the guy in episode 946 who has been seeing the closeted cop. I'm going to make a couple of assumptions based on your call. I'm assuming that he never went out in public with you. Dinners, movies, events. I'm assuming that your friends never met him. I'm assuming that it was a hot fantasy for you to be seeing a cop who you thought was straight and married.