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If you're stuck in a relationship quandary

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary

Hi, Dan. I'm a 36-year-old lesbian in a relationship with my girlfriend. We've been together for two years and are monogamous. We have a wonderful relationship, very, very deeply fulfilled, have amazing sex and just very, very deeply in love. We've been thinking about when we're older, you know, maybe things when –

Hi, Dan. I'm a 36-year-old lesbian in a relationship with my girlfriend. We've been together for two years and are monogamous. We have a wonderful relationship, very, very deeply fulfilled, have amazing sex and just very, very deeply in love. We've been thinking about when we're older, you know, maybe things when –

they get stale or a bit boring in our sex life we will attend a lesbian sex club together with the intention of you know spicing things up in our sex life a little bit just for each other getting turned on by each other hooking up with each other there but not involving anyone else just something to do that might be a bit different and erotic for us that we're not sort of used to.

they get stale or a bit boring in our sex life we will attend a lesbian sex club together with the intention of you know spicing things up in our sex life a little bit just for each other getting turned on by each other hooking up with each other there but not involving anyone else just something to do that might be a bit different and erotic for us that we're not sort of used to.

But the more we've been talking, we thought, hey, why wait? We should just do this while they're young and hot and still having amazing sex. Because when we're older, we may not even be interested in something like this. So we're going to be attending a bigger city next year where we know that these type of events happen. And

But the more we've been talking, we thought, hey, why wait? We should just do this while they're young and hot and still having amazing sex. Because when we're older, we may not even be interested in something like this. So we're going to be attending a bigger city next year where we know that these type of events happen. And

we're really looking forward to attending but I was talking to my good friend about this and she had some concerns I guess that my expectations about this kind of events were not perhaps correct she sort of caution me a little bit that people who go to these events don't usually just stay with their partner.

we're really looking forward to attending but I was talking to my good friend about this and she had some concerns I guess that my expectations about this kind of events were not perhaps correct she sort of caution me a little bit that people who go to these events don't usually just stay with their partner.

Usually other people are involved and the expectation is there that, you know, you will sort of involve other people and other people will expect whoever is there. that they would be involved with other people as well. Obviously, my partner and I don't have any intention of involving other people.

Usually other people are involved and the expectation is there that, you know, you will sort of involve other people and other people will expect whoever is there. that they would be involved with other people as well. Obviously, my partner and I don't have any intention of involving other people.

We want to just do it for ourselves, make each other feel hot and turned on and have some amazing sex there or afterwards. and just add something to our lives that we find very erotic and exciting. But I guess my question is, is it unrealistic to go to this kind of event thinking that nothing will happen with other people?

We want to just do it for ourselves, make each other feel hot and turned on and have some amazing sex there or afterwards. and just add something to our lives that we find very erotic and exciting. But I guess my question is, is it unrealistic to go to this kind of event thinking that nothing will happen with other people?

Is it unrealistic to think that our minds won't be changed when we're in the moment and we might involve other people even though we don't really want to and we might regret it later? Yeah, and do monogamous couples go to sex clubs just to play with each other or does stuff always happen with other people?

Is it unrealistic to think that our minds won't be changed when we're in the moment and we might involve other people even though we don't really want to and we might regret it later? Yeah, and do monogamous couples go to sex clubs just to play with each other or does stuff always happen with other people?

Hi, Deanne. I'm a 45-year-old cishet married woman living in the Pacific Northwest, and my question is about my husband. I was out of town this last weekend, and when I got back, he admitted to me that the night before, he had been drinking and watching porn and felt inspired to open his old Tinder account and

Hi, Deanne. I'm a 45-year-old cishet married woman living in the Pacific Northwest, and my question is about my husband. I was out of town this last weekend, and when I got back, he admitted to me that the night before, he had been drinking and watching porn and felt inspired to open his old Tinder account and

And this time create a profile with the intention of meeting another straight guy to masturbate with. He says he doesn't want any physical contact. He just finds the idea of being in close proximity to another guy while watching porn hot because it's taboo. I try to respond in a supportive way, but...

And this time create a profile with the intention of meeting another straight guy to masturbate with. He says he doesn't want any physical contact. He just finds the idea of being in close proximity to another guy while watching porn hot because it's taboo. I try to respond in a supportive way, but...