Unnamed Caller 3

I have to admit that I had a little bit of a sinking feeling in my stomach and I'm trying to figure out how to process this. I've never dated anybody who's expressed a desire like that. I've never dated knowingly a bi guy. I've always considered myself progressive and that I would never have a problem with that. And I've even told him, you know, hey, do you think you might be bi?

I have to admit that I had a little bit of a sinking feeling in my stomach and I'm trying to figure out how to process this. I've never dated anybody who's expressed a desire like that. I've never dated knowingly a bi guy. I've always considered myself progressive and that I would never have a problem with that. And I've even told him, you know, hey, do you think you might be bi?

because it's okay if you are and he says no he doesn't think that he is but he does find this idea hot he's also told me that the idea of like a male male female threesome and maybe having some incidental touching with a guy in the context of both of them touching the woman is also hot to him but he doesn't really have any desire to have one-on-one physical contact with the guy

because it's okay if you are and he says no he doesn't think that he is but he does find this idea hot he's also told me that the idea of like a male male female threesome and maybe having some incidental touching with a guy in the context of both of them touching the woman is also hot to him but he doesn't really have any desire to have one-on-one physical contact with the guy

So I'm just wondering if I should take this at face value and encourage him to pursue it. We do have, you know, ourselves a good adventurous sex life. We're very much in love. But I'm also wondering if perhaps. This could be an indication that he has stronger desires for physical contact with another guy that either he's unaware of or just not comfortable telling me.

So I'm just wondering if I should take this at face value and encourage him to pursue it. We do have, you know, ourselves a good adventurous sex life. We're very much in love. But I'm also wondering if perhaps. This could be an indication that he has stronger desires for physical contact with another guy that either he's unaware of or just not comfortable telling me.

And I guess part of why this is giving me a little bit of pause is because... When I was 15, my dad came out as gay. And we've got a great relationship now. But at the time, it was really hard on my family and particularly devastating for my mother. It took her years to recover. And maybe on some level, there's a fear that that will happen to me.

And I guess part of why this is giving me a little bit of pause is because... When I was 15, my dad came out as gay. And we've got a great relationship now. But at the time, it was really hard on my family and particularly devastating for my mother. It took her years to recover. And maybe on some level, there's a fear that that will happen to me.

Hey, Dan. So I've been seeing this girl for about six weeks and we've kind of hit it off fast and it's become very feelings oriented very, very quickly. I got divorced a few years ago and this is kind of the first time that I have felt something deeper for somebody. She's super attractive, but she also does little things that reveal a good and kind character to me at this early stage.

Hey, Dan. So I've been seeing this girl for about six weeks and we've kind of hit it off fast and it's become very feelings oriented very, very quickly. I got divorced a few years ago and this is kind of the first time that I have felt something deeper for somebody. She's super attractive, but she also does little things that reveal a good and kind character to me at this early stage.

And suggest kind of a generous and good soul that I can trust. But I guess I struggle with the trust part. And tonight, after I told her I couldn't hang out, she texted me and said she was going to go meet up with a male friend of hers for a drink. This male friend had reportedly recently broken up and she felt he needed a shoulder to cry on.

And suggest kind of a generous and good soul that I can trust. But I guess I struggle with the trust part. And tonight, after I told her I couldn't hang out, she texted me and said she was going to go meet up with a male friend of hers for a drink. This male friend had reportedly recently broken up and she felt he needed a shoulder to cry on.

I asked her if they had ever dated or fucked before and she said no. But about 10 minutes later, she texted me back and said she had, in fact, fucked him for some time more than a year ago. She insisted that wasn't the reason she was going to meet up with him, but I guess I'm not sure.

I asked her if they had ever dated or fucked before and she said no. But about 10 minutes later, she texted me back and said she had, in fact, fucked him for some time more than a year ago. She insisted that wasn't the reason she was going to meet up with him, but I guess I'm not sure.

There was also another episode a few weeks back where she was going to go meet up with another male friend who she initially said was not someone she had been with, but then she turned around and said, I'm sorry, but yes, I was with him. I'm just trying to figure out whether I am overreacting in this situation.

There was also another episode a few weeks back where she was going to go meet up with another male friend who she initially said was not someone she had been with, but then she turned around and said, I'm sorry, but yes, I was with him. I'm just trying to figure out whether I am overreacting in this situation.

Post-divorce, I've done a little bit of research into my attachment style, and I do seem to have an anxious attachment style. But I guess I dislike your take on the situation. I'm very torn about whether I'm overreacting about her spending time with these dudes, whether I should be fine with it, or whether I have reason to be concerned, and whether I should view this as a red flag.

Post-divorce, I've done a little bit of research into my attachment style, and I do seem to have an anxious attachment style. But I guess I dislike your take on the situation. I'm very torn about whether I'm overreacting about her spending time with these dudes, whether I should be fine with it, or whether I have reason to be concerned, and whether I should view this as a red flag.

Hey Dan, my wife and I are relatively new to having an open relationship, you know, five or six months ago. So far, everything's been tons of fun. We really enjoyed it. It's been great. We started seeing this one woman and it first started as like a, you know, friend of benefits, super good time, all enjoy each other company. Now three months into that relationship,

Hey Dan, my wife and I are relatively new to having an open relationship, you know, five or six months ago. So far, everything's been tons of fun. We really enjoyed it. It's been great. We started seeing this one woman and it first started as like a, you know, friend of benefits, super good time, all enjoy each other company. Now three months into that relationship,