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I responded to that in the moment, like, a little shocked, but, like, was just like, well, lots of guys don't have dicks. you know, so you're in luck. But I didn't specifically say I don't. And the tone of the whole conversation was friendly, like on the verge of flirty, but nothing like inappropriate beyond like a workplace flirt energy.

I responded to that in the moment, like, a little shocked, but, like, was just like, well, lots of guys don't have dicks. you know, so you're in luck. But I didn't specifically say I don't. And the tone of the whole conversation was friendly, like on the verge of flirty, but nothing like inappropriate beyond like a workplace flirt energy.

I'm trying to figure out if he said that to show interest in me or not, because there's like two ways this could go. One is he's trying to express his genital preference and that he's down. And that's like kind of I'm not mad at that if he knows I'm trans, you know? And then there's also the timeline where he doesn't know I'm trans and it was his way of making sure I didn't like get my hopes up.

I'm trying to figure out if he said that to show interest in me or not, because there's like two ways this could go. One is he's trying to express his genital preference and that he's down. And that's like kind of I'm not mad at that if he knows I'm trans, you know? And then there's also the timeline where he doesn't know I'm trans and it was his way of making sure I didn't like get my hopes up.

I don't know. So now I want to kind of tell him I'm trans after him having made this comment. And I should have just said something in the moment maybe, but I'm like trying to figure out a smooth way to like drop that information. Any thoughts?

I don't know. So now I want to kind of tell him I'm trans after him having made this comment. And I should have just said something in the moment maybe, but I'm like trying to figure out a smooth way to like drop that information. Any thoughts?

Hi, Dan. I'm a straight male in my 40s. I heard a while back a woman calling to your show talking about the best sex she had ever had. And her description of that was that she had loss of orgasms. And it got me thinking, what was the best sex that I ever had? And I came to the same answer. It was when she had lots of orgasms. And that got me thinking.

Hi, Dan. I'm a straight male in my 40s. I heard a while back a woman calling to your show talking about the best sex she had ever had. And her description of that was that she had loss of orgasms. And it got me thinking, what was the best sex that I ever had? And I came to the same answer. It was when she had lots of orgasms. And that got me thinking.

Today, I'm recently divorced after a long sexless marriage. And I'm in my 40s. I'm thinking about, you know, maybe meeting a woman again. But I'm very hesitant about...

Today, I'm recently divorced after a long sexless marriage. And I'm in my 40s. I'm thinking about, you know, maybe meeting a woman again. But I'm very hesitant about...

about having sex again because you know it's really such a to such a big part it's a performance i have to do well if i don't do well i ruin it for everybody because good sex the the you know the measurement we have for that is that the woman has lots of orgasms or the measurement that i have for it at least and i find it kind of weird because That means that it's not about enjoyment.

about having sex again because you know it's really such a to such a big part it's a performance i have to do well if i don't do well i ruin it for everybody because good sex the the you know the measurement we have for that is that the woman has lots of orgasms or the measurement that i have for it at least and i find it kind of weird because That means that it's not about enjoyment.

I'm not there to enjoy it. I'm there to perform and do well. Which is a bit strange, isn't it? Is it like that for women too? So it makes me kind of not wanting to have sex. I mean, why bother? The risks are so high. of me ruining it. And it kind of seems a bit unfair, to be honest. Dan, help me get my head around this. Am I just being a big baby? All right, let's get this out of the way first.

I'm not there to enjoy it. I'm there to perform and do well. Which is a bit strange, isn't it? Is it like that for women too? So it makes me kind of not wanting to have sex. I mean, why bother? The risks are so high. of me ruining it. And it kind of seems a bit unfair, to be honest. Dan, help me get my head around this. Am I just being a big baby? All right, let's get this out of the way first.

Dear Dan, I am a cis bi woman with a problem. The trainer at my gym is so hot, just too hot. I can't handle it. She is really nice and really funny and just so hot. I can't even go to her workout class anymore. I don't know what to do. She's my favorite trainer at the gym. I don't really like anyone else there, but she is just so hot. I can't fucking handle it. P.S.

Dear Dan, I am a cis bi woman with a problem. The trainer at my gym is so hot, just too hot. I can't handle it. She is really nice and really funny and just so hot. I can't even go to her workout class anymore. I don't know what to do. She's my favorite trainer at the gym. I don't really like anyone else there, but she is just so hot. I can't fucking handle it. P.S.

I'm married and I'm not out to my husband.

I'm married and I'm not out to my husband.

Hi, Dan. I am a 23-year-old gay Native American man, and I'm currently living in a situation with three other straight roommates. So I've been friends with one of my friends for quite a while since elementary school up until high school. And we are currently still living together. I would say our relationship is well bonded together. He's straight, of course, but I'm gay.

Hi, Dan. I am a 23-year-old gay Native American man, and I'm currently living in a situation with three other straight roommates. So I've been friends with one of my friends for quite a while since elementary school up until high school. And we are currently still living together. I would say our relationship is well bonded together. He's straight, of course, but I'm gay.