Unnamed Caller 3

But like we never had like any interactions with that. Like I told him when I was in high school, he was fine with it. He's always been fine with it. But up until recently, some of the jokes that he's been making for me, per se, have not been perceived as jokes. So the most recent thing that happened was, so Saturday, I invited him to a baseball game.

But like we never had like any interactions with that. Like I told him when I was in high school, he was fine with it. He's always been fine with it. But up until recently, some of the jokes that he's been making for me, per se, have not been perceived as jokes. So the most recent thing that happened was, so Saturday, I invited him to a baseball game.

He came, and he knew my uncle since, like, high school, like, very beginning of high school. He, like, knows him. He came to, like, all our games and that. But he keeps making jokes. Every time my uncle is around, he keeps making jokes about how he turned me gay. And he keeps making jokes about him being gay. But, you know, at first it was fine.

He came, and he knew my uncle since, like, high school, like, very beginning of high school. He, like, knows him. He came to, like, all our games and that. But he keeps making jokes. Every time my uncle is around, he keeps making jokes about how he turned me gay. And he keeps making jokes about him being gay. But, you know, at first it was fine.

Everything didn't start happening until my uncle started hanging out with us a little bit more this year, like going to parties or like, you know, just going like out beers, just whatever, just like a few times this year. But every time he came around, he would make that comment.

Everything didn't start happening until my uncle started hanging out with us a little bit more this year, like going to parties or like, you know, just going like out beers, just whatever, just like a few times this year. But every time he came around, he would make that comment.

And then he also made a comment saying that me not having a father and not having a father growing up makes me less of a man. And that him having a father made him the man he is today kind of makes me mad. So I've been kind of shut away for the past week and a half just avoiding him. But my question is, should I tell him how I felt during that situation or am I blowing it up?

And then he also made a comment saying that me not having a father and not having a father growing up makes me less of a man. And that him having a father made him the man he is today kind of makes me mad. So I've been kind of shut away for the past week and a half just avoiding him. But my question is, should I tell him how I felt during that situation or am I blowing it up?

Hi, Dan. So I have a friend who's an adult gay man. And when I met him, he was in recovery for meth addiction. But he's since relapsed. And since that happened, he's opened up to me about the reason he uses meth. So he's very deep into diaper play and adult baby kink. And he... has discovered that injecting meth directly into his penis will make his penis shrink, and he finds it very affirming.

Hi, Dan. So I have a friend who's an adult gay man. And when I met him, he was in recovery for meth addiction. But he's since relapsed. And since that happened, he's opened up to me about the reason he uses meth. So he's very deep into diaper play and adult baby kink. And he... has discovered that injecting meth directly into his penis will make his penis shrink, and he finds it very affirming.

But we were talking and we were interested in trying to find some harm reduction methods he can use. Maybe there's other ways to create penis shrinkage that aren't an addictive substance. He says he's not even that interested in the high when he's clean. He just misses being able to shrink his penis. So any help you could offer would be fantastic.

But we were talking and we were interested in trying to find some harm reduction methods he can use. Maybe there's other ways to create penis shrinkage that aren't an addictive substance. He says he's not even that interested in the high when he's clean. He just misses being able to shrink his penis. So any help you could offer would be fantastic.

Papa Bear here, calling in regards to episode 929, where a caller wondered if being polyamorous belonged in the LGBTQIA plus alphabet. understand why it feels like it should poly people often face discrimination and stigma from others who only subscribe to societal norms there are certainly parallels especially since this discrimination has an origin in how people are sexually wired

Papa Bear here, calling in regards to episode 929, where a caller wondered if being polyamorous belonged in the LGBTQIA plus alphabet. understand why it feels like it should poly people often face discrimination and stigma from others who only subscribe to societal norms there are certainly parallels especially since this discrimination has an origin in how people are sexually wired

I had the same question several years ago about BDSM and whether or not it belonged in the rainbow alphabet or if I, a cis straight identified guy, belonged under the queer umbrella for being kinky, which is absolutely hardwired into my sexuality and always has been. I asked the question on FetLife and had a lot of pushback.

I had the same question several years ago about BDSM and whether or not it belonged in the rainbow alphabet or if I, a cis straight identified guy, belonged under the queer umbrella for being kinky, which is absolutely hardwired into my sexuality and always has been. I asked the question on FetLife and had a lot of pushback.

Many queer people argued that being straight and having straight kinky sex, just like having multiple partners in straight relationships, is still just that, straight, not bi, pan, or queer, etc., Though I understood what they were saying, I really struggled with his answer. BDSM just felt queer to me. What I wasn't realizing is my kink sexuality felt queer to me because I'm queer, not straight.

Many queer people argued that being straight and having straight kinky sex, just like having multiple partners in straight relationships, is still just that, straight, not bi, pan, or queer, etc., Though I understood what they were saying, I really struggled with his answer. BDSM just felt queer to me. What I wasn't realizing is my kink sexuality felt queer to me because I'm queer, not straight.

Expressing that in my kink was a safe way to first explore because I could pretend I was still straight since I only did things with other people with penises during kink scenes. It took time and a little therapy to realize that I didn't have to find excuses for why I was interested in kinky sex with cis or trans men, gender non-conforming or gender fluid folks, along with cis and trans women.

Expressing that in my kink was a safe way to first explore because I could pretend I was still straight since I only did things with other people with penises during kink scenes. It took time and a little therapy to realize that I didn't have to find excuses for why I was interested in kinky sex with cis or trans men, gender non-conforming or gender fluid folks, along with cis and trans women.