Valerie
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
There's reasons why things happen.
My husband will say, I think he even said this on the podcast.
No, it takes a lot for me to apologize.
So I really deeply have to feel sorry or know that I did wrong to apologize.
It's hard for me to believe him.
If I ever... You should see Mark's face when I do apologize.
He's like, damn, you just apologized?
Yeah, I'm a big overthinker, too.
But I've learned that they don't matter.
I think us women and wives always carry mental load.
You never cared about them if it doesn't hurt.
If it's that easy, then you didn't really care about them in the beginning.
Sometimes you just want to let it all out and say what you got to say, but you might be judged on what you say.
Yeah, but then you get judged for, I don't know, talking shit, I guess.