Vanessa Marin

Yeah, keep it positive.

So eventually you start building that foundation and the two of you start realizing, hey, it can actually be fun to talk about sex.

It can feel connecting to talk about sex.

It doesn't feel as scary and taboo anymore.

I think you should be talking about sex at least a couple of times a week.

Yeah.

And I think it's fun to talk about it, not always talking about your sex life.

So Xander and I, like with our Instagram account, we designed so much of our content to just open up conversations between couples about not about your sex life.

Like we'll answer, you know, we'll answer a question from someone in our community and you could show that to your partner.

Like,

oh, this is a really interesting question.

It has nothing to do with us or our sex life, but like, what did you think about the advice they gave?

Did you agree?

Did you disagree?

Well, one of my favorite series that we do is we act out horrible sex positions that we find online.

You know, so we're like making total fools of ourselves, like twist it over upside down.

You know, there's no way this position could work.

And it's like, just send that to your partner and laugh about that.

Like, look at these guys acting like total idiots on the internet.

I thought this woman was supposed to be a professional.