Vanessa Marin

Oh, yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

There's not any proper scientific research that I've seen on the numbers, but we've polled our community before and something like 95% of women said that they've faked at least once in their life.

And we asked if you're currently faking orgasm with your partner.

I believe it was around 37% of women said.

And some women, someone will say, I don't fake it, but it just doesn't happen.

And neither of us, we don't talk about it openly.

So it just, you know, it just happens like that.

So that's another big percentage of women too, that they're not necessarily faking it, but they're still not having them.

It's not good.

I mentioned earlier the connection between enjoyment and desire.

It sounds so obvious, but most of us don't make that connection.

The dynamic that I hear about the most frequently is the woman's the one that has lower desire.

It's always the woman, and she's always blaming herself.

What's wrong with me?

I must be broken.

Something must be wrong with me.

It's all my fault.

My husband always wants sex, and I never want it.