Vanessa Marin

And this is, I'm glad that you're saying this because this is the battle that Xander and I are constantly fighting in our business is trying to help people realize sex is not just sex.

Sex is not just putting body parts in other body parts.

Sex is the way we express love for each other.

Sex is the way that we create intimacy with each other, that we feel close to each other.

It's a way that we play together.

It's a way we explore ourselves and each other.

There's a way we're vulnerable and open and raw with each other.

It's this thing that we do that we don't do with anybody else in our lives.

It's a special thing that just the two of us do.

It's not just this act that we do.

It's a journey that we take together.

And if that...

Connection isn't in place in a relationship.

There's so many other aspects that are going to be damaged.

I don't think that you can have a healthy relationship without a healthy active sex life.

Aside from a very small percentage of people who are asexual, I don't think you can have a healthy sex life without it.

You can.

I mean, I have never been tested on this.

Maybe if somebody wants to fund some testing, see how good my radar is on this.

But I can usually sense it.