Vanessa Marin

So you get ready for bed, you crawl into bed, and that's the time that we're supposed to be having sex.

I don't know about you, but for me, by the time I'm crawling into bed, I am ready for bed.

I want to go to sleep.

It's a really hard time to all of a sudden then get excited about having sex with my husband.

And most couples will tell me the same thing, like, I'm exhausted when I get into bed.

My head hits the pillow and I'm asleep to 10 seconds later, where you're starting to do that horrible math in your head of, okay, if I fall asleep right now, then I can get, you know, seven hours of sleep.

So it's just a tough time to get really excited about it.

So I always tell couples, prioritize sex as early in the evening or in the day.

If you have the space to do it in the morning or during the day, that's great.

But if you're, you know, like most people, you have nine to five jobs.

You're not really home back together until the, you know, around 5 or 6 p.m.

As early in the day as you can.

So maybe that's putting the kids to bed a little bit earlier.

Or even if it's as simple as we prioritize it before we do Netflix.

Or we prioritize it over doing folding the laundry.

Like prioritize it over something.

Don't have it be the last thing that you're doing at the end of the night.

I mean, are there any benefits to waking up and... Most men tend to feel horniest in the morning and get the best erections in the morning.

So a lot of men love morning sex.

Unfortunately, a lot of women do not.