Vanessa Marin

They feel self-conscious about their breath.

And I just think, you know what?

Yeah, your breath is stinky, but you're both stinky.

And you notice that stink for about two seconds and then you get over it.

But if it really bothers you, a little package of Listerine strips in your bedside table can work wonders.

That can be really fun.

And I personally love starting the day having sex.

You feel kind of accomplished the rest of the day.

Like we did the best thing in the beginning of the day.

You've got that extra pep in your step for the rest of the day.

So I think the morning is a great time to do it.

Yes, this is an experiment that Xander and I just started doing.

We make ourselves guinea pigs for all my little harebrained ideas.

But I was thinking a lot about how easy it is for us to fall into this routine of being on our phones, watching Netflix.

We're just like every other couple.

The workday ends, we're tired.

The idea of crashing out on the couch and putting on Love is Blind

It feels so good.

But the reality is you never feel connected after that.

You know, and that's unfortunately for most couples, that's their quality time is we're both watching TV, but we're on our phones as we're watching the TV.