Vanessa Marin

We asked, we polled our audience on ideal length.

And men thought that intercourse, just the intercourse part of it, should last 20 minutes or more.

For women, the ideal length was five to seven minutes.

That's all we want.

Five to seven minutes, which should be good news for a lot of men because on average, men last about two to three minutes.

So men are really stressing themselves out, lasting two to three minutes, but thinking they're supposed to last 30 plus.

So, I mean, positions are a really fun thing to play around with.

I do think a lot of people get anxious and self-conscious.

A lot of that is like, you know, the body image stuff that comes up.

Is this going to show my roles?

But we've asked, we pulled our audience and people said on average they liked about two to three positions per session.

That felt fun for them.

But there are a lot of people, a lot of people who just do one position.

Mm-hmm.

And just missionary the whole time and every time.

And that gets boring.

I'm a fan of missionary.

Missionary can be great.

But if that's the only position you're doing every single time, you're going to get tired of it.

The best position for women is her on top, cowgirl position.