Vanessa Marin
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Let's say at some point he has an event that you want to go to.
What are you going to do?
You're going to schedule that, right?
You're going to put that in your calendar.
Let's say it happens in the middle of the day.
You're going to tell your team, hey, Thursday from two to four, I'm out.
I am not available.
Don't contact me.
It is important to me to show up for my kid.
I'm going to be there.
And we look at that in such a positive way.
Like that is me showing my kid respect, showing him how much I love him, how important it is for me to be there.
So again, why can't we look at that in the same way with our partner when it comes to intimacy?
Yeah, it shouldn't be.
It's time.
Get in the bedroom.
So you can do it in a lot of different ways.
Some people genuinely like that idea of having it be a specific time, and they make it feel sexy.
Like, I'm going to meet you in the bedroom Wednesday at 7, and you can do fun role-play stuff around that.
So some couples, that works for.