Vanessa Marin

Spitting is another one that's happening a lot more often.

Mm-hmm.

Yeah, spitting like on each other's faces, into each other's mouths, usually the man doing it onto the woman.

So yeah, we're seeing because porn, you know, porn's meant to be entertainment, it shows more and more extreme acts to capture people's attention.

And so now a lot of these behaviors that people are seeing are being normalized and being brought into, you know, casual sex.

And again, there's nothing wrong with those specific behaviors themselves, as long as those people are consenting enthusiastically and know what they're doing.

Some women do.

Yeah.

I mean, for some people, there's this taboo power play around sex, around playing around with those dynamics of somebody being in control, somebody being submissive, somebody being kind of cruel or bossy, somebody taking it.

So, I mean, sex is a way that we play.

We play with these dynamics.

And sometimes it's because it feels so taboo and forbidden that makes it feel exciting for us.

And sometimes it's places that we don't allow ourselves to go outside of the bedroom.

We do allow ourselves to go inside of the bedroom.

They become sexualized because we don't do that.

So very commonly you'll see like people, CEOs, people in high positions of authority and power, like very in control of their day to day lives, often like being very submissive in the bedroom because it's something that they can't allow themselves or won't allow themselves to do in their normal day to day life.

Chore play.

What is it?

So chore play is doing chores as a form of foreplay.

So I think chore play is hilarious.