Vanessa Marin
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And a lot of women...
I genuinely love it.
Like, they love their husbands doing the vacuuming.
Xander, he's such a good sport.
We've done a lot of tour play reels on our Instagram.
So he'll get out that vacuum cleaner and, you know, be thrusting into it as he's doing it.
Yeah.
Just, like, really hamming it up or, you know, he's doing the dishes and, you know, really getting into the technique of it.
But, yeah, so I want to be clear with it.
It's not – sometimes people say, oh, well, we shouldn't reward – men shouldn't be rewarded for doing chores.
And we don't want to set up this dynamic of, oh, wash the dishes and then you get sex.
Like, we're all adults.
We all need to participate in the boring, normal adult stuff of running a household.
But I do think –
there's a way to play with it and be silly and goofy about it.
So Xander's not earning sex from me.
I expect him to do chores like a normal adult.
But chores are boring.
They suck.
Neither one of us like to do them.