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Victor (Vic) Strecher

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420 total appearances

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Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I believe that

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Students need to know who they are.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Meaning, what are their core values?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Explore their identity.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Is the identity that they're striving for, does that fit?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Almost like a suit.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Try the suit on, wear it for a while.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

See whether that works for you.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Do you like being this person who wants to be wealthy?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Do you like being this person who wants to be generous?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Do you like this person who wants to be a healer?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Whatever.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Try those things on for a change.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

find out what your core values are, what your identity is from those core values.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And from that, find out whether the strengths that you are trying to develop are the right strengths.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Because ultimately, I believe you will flourish

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

if your behaviors, if your profession, if your emotions all come from this root system, almost like a tree.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So if you start with the roots, as opposed to starting with the branches of the tree, like what career do you want to be involved in?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Well, the majority of people who are majoring in something 10 years later aren't doing that anymore.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So start with what you value the most in your life.