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Victor (Vic) Strecher

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Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

in my book, Life on Purpose, this headstone test.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And it's just a real simple test.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

You draw a headstone any way you want, any shape you want, and put down your name.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Say you just died today.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And what would you want on the epitaph?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

What would you want people to say about you at your memorial service?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

This is really thinking about the end of your life, and it may sound depressing, but it starts getting you to think about the importance of your legacy.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

What do you want to leave when you've left this planet?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So many people I talk to about finding their purpose are worried about the scope of their purpose or the length that they have to maintain this purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

or even the fact that they're committing themselves to something very big and bigger than themselves very often.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

One of the things I like to talk about is the fact that there are different domains of purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I might have a work purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I might have a purpose at home with my family.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I might have a personal purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I might have a community purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And you might start with these different domains of your life and ask yourself, which of those domains are most important to me?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And then within that domain, you might start thinking about, do I have a purpose within that domain?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

For example, we spend most of our waking hours working.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Most of us do anyway.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So that's a really important time for many people.