Vince Vaughn

what are the things I'm doing that are good, what's not good, what's a good thing to bring to a relationship, what's not working on yourself in a weird way, you'll come in contact with somebody more than I gotta go to the right class or go out during the day.

It's more about doing that kind of work on yourself

And then I think you'll kind of attract somebody in a similar mindset.

But I would say put – don't put it off.

Just focus on it a little bit in the same way that you've done with your career.

Did you have to do that in your – like – Yeah, I got to a point like you did and I thought – at first I thought, you know, maybe you don't get all the cards in life.

Like maybe I was so not focused on this.

Right.

It just doesn't work out.

Now I'm older and I wish I would have gotten started sooner.

But then I thought –

you know, I want to ask God for those years back.

Like I can get those years better than I would have had them if I'm asking for them now, because now I'm wanting that.

Does that make sense?

So now that you want it, you say, why can't I have it now in whatever way it looks for you at 45?

Yeah.

But I think do it with grace too.

You can say, you know, I don't want to do this.

This would be better.

What do I look – and also I think you go, what do I want in a person that I'm going to –