Vivian Tu

And when I say that, by the way, it's like when I say it to my husband, I'm like, I just think it's funny how, and I'm about to like go off rip.

Like, I don't think it's funny.

I think, I think it's strange that,

we do not talk about the other side of that transaction when women are seen as gold diggers going after economic stability after a man who has money whatever we don't call the men hottie diggers or looks looks diggers or you know babe digger like we don't call them those things let's be real every decision you make in life is a transaction are you okay with the one that you're making

And for women, I think we should be loud and proud about the fact that we want financial stability.

I don't love the idea of relying on a man for money, not because I think you'd get called a gold digger, but because I feel like if somebody has the power to feed you, they have the power to starve you.

I am more comfortable knowing that at the end of the day, I'm going to decide how I eat.

I'm going to do it for myself.

But we should encourage women to want money.

Even in a corporate setting, when you see a woman who is ambitious, which is a positive connotation word, she's often described as power hungry, which is a negative connotation word.

When she is assertive, positive connotation word, she's bossy, negative connotation word.

But you've never heard a man be described as bossy.

Never.

Only as a boss.

Literally never in my life.

Like literally not once.

Why is that word reserved for us?

It's so gendered.

It's disgusting.

Yeah.