Vivian Tu

Oh my gosh.

I was just going to say dollar bill.

Yeah.

Anybody who says money does not impact your relationship is a liar.

Okay.

It is truly every year they do some, somebody does a study.

It's money and sex, money and sex, one and two, one and two.

They go back and forth between who's number one, who's number two.

But like, those are the top two reasons always.

And imagine if true physical intimacy is up there and money's right next to it, why don't we put just as much time into maintaining the money piece as we do the physical intimacy piece?

Correct.

And I think...

Maybe this is just a phenomenon that I have witnessed, and I will say this from, like, a heteronormative relationship standpoint, but, like, we have a lot of guy friends who make a lot of money, and you are one of two dudes, okay?

You either want a partner, truly, and, like...

I know some of these guys, their wives, girlfriends, whatever, are the coolest, most inspirational.

They just have the coolest job or they always have something really exciting to talk about, like a passion project they're working on.

They're just so cool and they're so smart.

Really nice.

They do something.

They just have a lot to bring.