Vivian Tu

They're always the person who's like, oh yeah, I brought a snack for you.

I'm like, why do you have a snack for me?

But it's like, they're just cool, thoughtful partners.

Then there are other people who want a more...

I would say with wives, it's more of like a traditional marriage.

Someone who stays at home, who takes care of the home, and there's nothing wrong with that.

When you choose these routes, I think it has a lot to do with...

having been conditioned into thinking that you need to be the provider.

And I will say, I think there are a lot of men out there that would not be able to handle having a significant other or a woman significant other who makes more money than them.

100%.

Because I think it would be emasculating for some men who are not confident in their own masculinity.

Yeah.

and their ability to provide in other ways that are not monetary.

No.

Yes, I do.

I really do.

But you have to talk about that for sure.

I make more than my significant other.

And I asked him, I was like, does it make you uncomfortable that I make more than you?

Because for the first five years of our relationship, he made way more money than I did.