Vivian Tu

Back in our grandparents' parents' days, it made sense because you could survive off of a single income.

Your wife would be at home making you dinners.

Now, more and more people have to be in dual income homes.

For some men, when they see women who are making a ton of money, if they can't hold up their end of the bargain, they feel lesser than.

But if a man can really do, and you have to do a lot of soul searching to do this, is like, I am able to bring to the table...

love and compassion and care.

And I take care of the home.

I have an incredible relationship with my children.

I am able to support my wife in a way that, you know, if I was working full time, maybe I wouldn't.

Or, you know, even if you are working full time, like I still support my wife.

I am the person who does all of the planning, who manages X, Y, Z in the house.

Like you have to find value in other places.

Or I think of like,

the little things that I value that my partner does.

Like he knows how crazy busy I am.

So he'll be like, I have picked the location of our next vacation.

I'm like, all right, tell me where we're going.

And he does all the research and he's like, we're going to take this flight to this thing.

We're going to, you know, make this transfer.

This is the hotel we're going to stay at.