Vivian Tu

I'm taking into account a bunch of other things, right?

Like how busy my schedule is, how I am living in a gazillion different places.

I'm only in one place every single week.

Well, I was talking to him because I was talking to some other creator friends.

I was like, I don't know how I would date now.

I don't know who would even possibly be cool with the lifestyle I have.

we have history.

Like, you knew me back when I was swinging from the chandeliers in my early 20s.

Because he liked me when I was just little old me with my roach-infested apartment and he was helping me move out.

He liked me then.

Exactly.

You know, I was at my worst.

And now that, you know, I've struck it big, like he's the first person I want to call when something happens.

And when I go on vacation and we are just, you know, watching a movie on the iPad every night, like that's my happy ever after.

Like you get to have that moment.

You're like, we did this together.

I have seen relationships where the woman makes significantly more work.

I think for men, you have to ascribe value in yourself that isn't tied to a dollar sign.

So what do you bring to the table aside from just an income?

Because for so long, this traditional sense of like breadwinner,