Vivian Tu
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Like people are quitting before they try.
I think it's harder to approach someone who's visually attractive because it's hard to instantaneously judge being like, that woman makes more money than me, right?
I think...
There's also a lot of mental gymnastics that can go into it.
I know what people say about me on the internet.
I see the comments.
People are like, so it's daddy's money.
I'm like, it's not.
I made it.
It's my money.
I invested it.
Or, oh, she's a trust fund baby.
Or, did she win the lotto?
No one ever just wants to believe that you earned your money or that you deserve it.
They always want to make some excuse for themselves so that they can sleep at night.
Because if they look at someone like me who has made it themselves with certain privileges that I will not deny, but who was able to do it, and they, in their 29-year-old life, have not been able to do it, they feel shortcomings.
That's such a good question because if I'm being honest,
I don't know if my fiance and I, if we met now, would be together.
I don't know if you're going to like that I said that.
I think.