Vivian Tu

But like, I think when you see someone that you think is too good for you, whether it be through looks, through money, through anything, you would say, I'd rather quit before I try.

Wow.

For that fear of rejection.

Like, it's such a fact because...

We have a friend who is just 10 out of 10, smoke show.

She's never the one that people want to talk to at the bar.

Really?

Oh my God, never.

Nobody ever talks to her.

She's like in the corner because everybody thinks that she will be mean to them.

In fact, this- Reject them or be mean.

Yeah, this girl's like-

A plus personality, just like so beautiful.

Like I can only say good things, but no one ever approaches her because they think that she will instantaneously think she's too good for them.

Whereas like if we're keeping it real, there are certainly girls who are not as conventionally attractive as this one friend, but guys feel very compelled.

They're like, well, this girl and I are probably in the same league and she seems fun.

I'll give this one a go.

Wow.

And that is just so much more approachable because they think that it's essentially like saying no to yourself, right?

or like applying for a job that you think you're unqualified for.